Another Selfish Episode with Naketa R. Thigpen: The High Achievers Consequence

Another Selfish Episode with Naketa R. Thigpen: The High Achievers Consequence

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Since we had a lot of good feedback from The Selfish Series we did in September last year, you don’t need to wait another year to hear some refreshing Selfish Episodes. I want to help you understand that it’s okay to hit the pause button so you can gain the balance you need to be able to do some selfless work. With this said, the Selfish Series is now going to be a part of the monthly episodes with this season’s theme: The High Achievers’ Consequence. 

On this episode, I’m going to share the two main consequences of a being a high achiever. I’m going to talk about the upsides and downsides of being competitive, the relationship between high achievement and perfectionism, and the effects of perfectionism in your life and your business.  

“Sometimes, competing with yourself in areas that you don’t need to shows as perfection that can paralyze you.” – Naketa Thigpen

Balance Boldly Podcast For Entrepreneurial Women in Business: 

  • New schedule of the Selfish Series 
  • Definition of a high achiever 
  • How perfectionism paralyzes people 
  • Where my trust center is 
  • What the Momentum Formula is 
  • The real meaning of balance 
  • Listening to advice versus taking action 

Key Takeaways: 

  • One consequence of being a high achiever, is that you can be paralyzed by your perfection and lean away from your trust. 
  • Lean into your center of trust. 
  • While you may have many counselors and advisers, in the end, you’re the one who executes and gets things done. 

A Little Gentle Honesty: 

  • Being a high achiever is both a blessing and a challenge. 

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How To Shift Your Experience

How To Shift Your Experience

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Season 4 is about the power up it’s time to build momentum people, many of you are in some type of transition where you are coming from one level of your career and getting ready and motivated to go to the next level of your career or your business. It’s no more time for thinking, this cannot be another year where you have those I want to dos, I should dos, I’m going to dos. It is truly about and i must in your life. It needs to stop being this theoretical thing that is all the way above your head and you reach up and grab it and pull the reality down to create your own experience.

Today we are going to talk about shifting your experience. There is a tendency for successful, entrepreneurial women and men like ourselves to think about everything we didn’t do, or everything we didn’t prepare for, in essence the negative life events. I want to invite you to forget what your situation was like yesterday, and shift your experience into the here and now, that’s where the good stuff is.

And You Must Find The Good Stuff 🙂

Guest Expert Today

Parchelle Hotten is a former high school math teacher turned entrepreneur. A native of Virginia Beach, her video production company Fresh Level Productions, has served a number of clients from Verizon to Habitat for Humanity. Her passion for education continues, as she currently speaks on numerous marketing topics and has recently been invited to be an NCE course instructor with Temple University. Featured online in CNN, FOX and Wall Street, Parchelle is a sought out business leader, and currently resides with her husband in Philadelphia, where her company has expanded.

The Secrets of Shifting Your Experience

  • Things may not go exactly how you planned, whether that’s in your business, relationships or life, or all three. Make the decision to shift your experience.
  • Shifting your experience includes looking realistically at your situation and looking at the things that make you feel good, empowered, and happy.
  • #ShaketheShame and guilt associated with your P.I.V.O.T.S in life.
  • Power up or build your momentum to execute your plan  
  • Don’t ask yourself disqualifying questions, ask yourself questions that empower you and inspire your greatness
  • Highlight the best parts of your situation when it gets tough
  • When you ask the right questions you begin to get under the surface and begin finding solutions that you didn’t know existed.  

Unapologetic pause

Parchelle’s unapologetic pause includes playing with her basketball league, it helps her step away from her phone. She really likes hulu or netflix and massages!

A littleGentle Honesty Shift the focus to who you have served, and your fears will disappear.

Balance Boldly is a weekly podcast hosted by International Balance & Relationship Advisor, Naketa Thigpen with pop ups from her Creative Writing, direct to the point husband Dean.  Naketa provides a time, space and opportunity for Bold Women and a few Brave men to receive the decoded truth through raw, unfiltered stories of how guilt, lack of vulnerability and shame  can stunt every aspect of your personal and business growth.

This podcast is filled with direct narratives and unscripted conversations with global industry experts who candidly share their business experience and tools for success through a personalized peak into their lives with stories you won’t find on Google.

First, give yourself Permission to Pause, unapologetically.

Then come and learn how to maximize your potential and your profits over at the Dreamers Blueprint, a community designed for bold women and brave men who are ready to balance all that matters, boldly or Follow Naketa on Twitter, @BalanceBoldly

If you like what you hear on the Balance Boldly Podcast, Please subscribe, rate and share to help us ensure the bold and brave have access to valuable balance tools.

Thank you for listening!

If you like what you hear on the Balance Boldly Podcast, Please subscribe, rate and share to help us ensure the bold and brave have access to valuable balance tools.

Thank you to our guest expert,  Parchelle Hotten

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